{"id":4525,"date":"2025-06-30T09:54:20","date_gmt":"2025-06-30T07:54:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/2helmets.com\/work-life-balance-a-personal-plea\/"},"modified":"2026-04-10T13:00:41","modified_gmt":"2026-04-10T11:00:41","slug":"work-life-balance-a-personal-plea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/2helmets.com\/en\/work-life-balance-a-personal-plea\/","title":{"rendered":"Work-life balance &#8211; a personal plea"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Personal responsibility shapes balance<\/h2>\n\n<p>As a member of the late 1960s generation, the question of a good work-life balance has been with me from the very beginning.<\/p>\n\n<p>Influenced by a libertarian spirit in which personal responsibility and motivation were considered the highest virtues, I was taught early on: Life is what you make of it. Cold water was not a spectre, but a familiar element, an expression of self-determination. <\/p>\n\n<p>At the beginning of my studies, the focus was less on academic prospects and more on the need to develop key skills in order to be a competitive performer after graduation.<\/p>\n\n<p>There was no mention of work-life balance.<\/p>\n\n<p>The weekend was a retreat where we occasionally didn&#8217;t work. Not much has changed to this day. I&#8217;m not dissatisfied, but I&#8217;m rich in experiences, including two moderate burnouts.  <\/p>\n\n<p>Be careful what you&#8217;re asking for.<\/p>\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A different attitude to the future<\/h3>\n\n<p>My son is now studying mechanical engineering with great passion and looks to the future with a completely different attitude.<\/p>\n\n<p>The question of a safety net hardly ever arises for him. With playful ease and serious commitment, he explores what is possible and what gives him pleasure. <\/p>\n\n<p>From my perspective at the time, it seems almost alien.<\/p>\n\n<p>And yet today it seems so healthy, so mature, so life-affirming to me.<\/p>\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Work-life balance sounds right<\/h3>\n\n<p>In practice, it is often far removed from life: Why this separation between &#8220;work&#8221; and &#8220;life&#8221;?<\/p>\n\n<p>Is work not a part of life?<\/p>\n\n<p>Am I not alive during work and only come back to life when I leave the company premises?<\/p>\n\n<p>The separation seems contrived.<\/p>\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Two ways to deceive yourself and others<\/h3>\n\n<p>This originally sensible concept is often distorted today.<\/p>\n\n<p>The performance maximizer propagates work-life balance as a social ideal and in reality consistently shifts the balance in favour of work. Predictable. <\/p>\n\n<p>The entitlement avoider uses the concept to justify inertia and emphasizes that more is already being done than is required. Just as predictable. <\/p>\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A different attitude to life<\/h3>\n\n<p>But there is a third group: people who do what they do with passion and joy, without ever thinking about work-life balance.<\/p>\n\n<p>They act out of an inner drive, not out of a sense of duty. They work because they want to.  <\/p>\n\n<p>And leave it if they don&#8217;t want to. An expression of true freedom and self-determination. <\/p>\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What it&#8217;s actually about<\/h3>\n\n<p>The separation between work and life is artificial.<\/p>\n\n<p>He who works, lives.<br\/>He who lives, decides how he works. <\/p>\n\n<p>The question is not balance.<br\/>The question is: What are you standing up for?<br\/>And what is it worth to you?<\/p>\n\n<p>The balance follows your decisions.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Personal responsibility, motivation, self-determination: as a member of the late 1960s generation, the question of a good work-life balance has been with me from the very beginning.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4019,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4525","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-unkategorisiert"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/2helmets.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4525","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/2helmets.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/2helmets.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2helmets.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2helmets.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4525"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/2helmets.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4525\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5958,"href":"https:\/\/2helmets.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4525\/revisions\/5958"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2helmets.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4019"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/2helmets.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4525"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2helmets.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4525"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2helmets.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4525"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}